DO NOT DIVORCE
Matt.
5:31-32 Do not divorce except for
unfaithfulness as this equals adultery.
Matt.
19:9 Anyone who divorces his wife, except
for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.
Mark
10: 11 Anyone who divorces his wife and
marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her
husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.
Luke
16:18 Anyone who divorces his wife and
marries another woman commits adultery and the man who marries a divorced woman
commits adultery.
DO NOT DIVORCE
Father,
“Do
not divorce” seems harsh in view of our culture’s acceptance of divorce, in
view of how difficult marriage is, and in view of the fact we are all sinners. On
the other hand, look what has happened to our culture with the acceptance of
divorce. Families are torn apart. Many children know only one parent. Extended
family members lose beloved in-laws or aunts and uncles. The easy acceptance of
divorce has devastated the foundation of our culture – the family.
Nelson’s Illustrated Bible Dictionary says that Jesus’ point here was that divorce was
contrary to God’s plan for marriage and should never be taken lightly. Hayford’s Bible Dictionary says “Behind
every broken marriage is a heart hardened against God, then hardened against
one’s mate.” This rings true to me as a counselor, for at least one of the two
people divorcing.
Father,
I
thank you for your plan of life long marriage. I also thank you for my marriage
which survived in spite of my hard heart and controlling ways. Marriage has
enriched my life in so many ways - with my husband’s friendship and love, with
children, grandchildren, and wonderful memories. Even the struggles blessed us and forced us
to grow throughout more than fifty years together.
I pray couples will honor their vows to each other and to you and will stay together.
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