A. My
home is cluttered with many things. For years I’ve clipped articles with
interesting ideas. I’ve also clipped recipes and saved magazines. And my closets
are bulging with clothes. I have trouble letting go of things because I think I
may find a use for them later. I want to simplify my life. I make stabs at this
but never seem to get very far. Can you give me a plan for simplifying my life?
A. Many
of us realize that we need to simplify our lives yet we never seem to get
around to it. One reason for this is that it takes time to simplify. It takes
time to get rid of clutter. We’re busy
people with many interests and little spare time. To accomplish our goal we
must make decluttering a priority.
We also
get bogged down by the enormity of the task. We tackle one closet but never
even finish this as other priorities interrupt our decluttering attempt. We
need to develop a plan and a system and make it work.
H. Norman
Wright, in his book Simplify Your Life,
describes the 80/20 principle which says that 80 percent of the value of things
is usually concentrated in only 20 percent of the items. “If 80 percent of the
space is taken up by stuff that’s used only 20 percent of the time, is it
necessary?” This principle can help you declutter.
Begin by
doing a survey of each room in your home. What objects or possessions in this
room complicate your life or are never used? Everything we own takes some of
our time to clean, sort, or store. When many objects, (books, clippings, files,
clothing, or furniture) are jammed into a small space we waste time trying to
find the items we need.
After you
have done the survey begin decluttering by working on one room at a time. Start with the room that is most used and most
cluttered or disorganized. Decluttering just this room will make life much
easier for you. The other rooms can wait.
Plan to
work for at least a half hour a day decluttering this room. If you have time to
watch TV or to play computer games you have time for this. Think about what
will help you find the items you need in this room. Simply rearranging things
for more convenience can make a difference.
Start
small getting rid of things. Try to eliminate 10% of the things accumulated. If
you find this difficult - and most of us do - realize you are clinging to your
past. You will enjoy the present more without all these “things.” If you still
can’t let go of 10% of the items put them away for a while and see if you miss
them.
Think of the people who could use the items you're hanging on to. Our material goods drown us when they could be helping someone else. Let go of your stuff and enjoy giving it away to those in need.
You
should hang onto items of personal interest such as scrapbooks or photo albums
and things you want to pass on to your children. What items need to go?
• Catalogs and magazines more than a
month old
• Legal documents and receipts that
are over fifteen years old
• books you’ll never read again, cookbooks,
record albums, cassette tapes and videos that you don’t use, furniture and
kitchen items you don’t use
•Old textbooks and encyclopedias
•Clothes that don’t fit; clothes you
haven’t worn in a year
•Papers sitting on top of furniture in
plain sight should be filed or thrown out.
Wright’s book will give you many more ideas to help you simplify your life.
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth,
where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up
for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth or rust destroys, and
where thieves do not break in and steal; for where your treasure is, there will
your heart be also. Matt. 6:19-21 NASB
Blessings, Dottie
You have shared some good tips, here, Dottie. We just did a "four-room switch," meaning that everyone got a new sleeping space, and one bedroom became a closet. We threw out soooo much stuff! I heard someone say, once, that it's helpful to pretend as though you're going to move and get rid of anything you wouldn't move to a new house!
ReplyDeleteHi Brandee, Thanks for your great comment!
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